This weekend I finished reading a book that had been on my “to read” list for *years.* This is a book written by my father in 1980 three years before I was born (and again in 2003). The book, Practical Magic, is not about wizardry or any other kind of Harry-Potter magic. It is instead about some fantastic methods and results in doing brief therapy. My take away though, was on how directed attention to people’s communication methods and your own can be very important.The book talks in depth about peoples’ sensory representation systems (auditory, visual, kinesthetic). It then teaches how to learn by looking and listening carefully, which one(s) an individual uses. The observation is then made that by understanding how people are repenting the world to themselves you can relate to them on a much more comfortable and profound level. This is a large part of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP).

The book’s supposed audience is other therapists wishing to use these NLP ideas in any type of therapy, but I think that anybody reading this book could learn something useful. Just days after finishing it I’m finding myself watching eye movements and body language and listening for linguistic queues to help me understand the ways people are experiencing their world.

3 thoughts on “Practical Magic

  1. I have always been facinated by the so called : “body langage”.

    So what did you find so far ?
    Where is the link on amazon ?

  2. The “body language” stuff isn’t as detailed as the “eye language” and ways to decipher actual spoken language, but it talks about how matching body positions can build rapport and indicate people’s feelings.

    The amazon link is above, but for clarity:

    this is it!

  3. Hey boy,

    you have a free copy for me ? :) I’m running out of money these days, London is an expensive city …

    Take care !

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